A connection between two or more person on the basis of love, hate, jealousy or any other emotion. There is one more related definition for it like it is a way of behaviour one got along with you.

The relationships are generally based on ironies. For example : For one a friendship is a formality but for other it might be an emotion or something more than his/her life.

There are mainly 4 types of relationships:

• Parent Child Relationship

• Friends Relationship

• Love Relationship

• Acquaintance Relationship

PARENT CHILD RELATIONSHIP

Basically, it is a type of relationship in which a child’s social, physical, emotional well being is developed. This relationship is the pillars of a child’s behaviour. It is a unique bond which every child and parent enjoy.

This is the relationship a child possess and enjoy for the first time or in simpler words we can say they are introduced to the concept of pure love. It generally include nurturing a child.

Short story || RELATIONSHIP

“Do you love mummy or Papa?” Counsellor asked to Arush, a 9 year old kid, when his mother, Radhika and father, Manish came for divorce and were having the second last meeting for it.

“Both” Arush said innocently.

“I mean, with whom do want to live with?” Counselor asked.

“Both” Arush repeated his answer.

“Arush ! You have to chose one, either Mummy or Papa” Counsellor said.

“But I love both and both love me” Arush said.

“Yes kid ! But they don’t love each other, you have to choose one, who keeps you more happy” Counselor said.

“Both” Arush gave the same answer again.

“I don’t think he could choose one, he will stay with both the parents with alternatively for 5 days and after a month, you will have to come here. Then you will get divorce, and I’ll give custody of the kid to one of you. So first 5 days who want to be with Arush?” Counsellor asked.

“I” Radhika said.

“Any objection Manish ?” Counsellor asked.

“No Sir” Manish said.

“Okay Radhika, you can take him to your house, but it will be your responsibility to leave Arush at Manish’s home after 5 days” Counsellor said.

“Okay Sir, I will take care of this” Radhika said.

“Thank you Sir” Both said and went to their houses.

“It’s so lonely without Arush and Radhika” Manish thought when he came to his home.

“I wish, Manish had asked an apology, I would have forgiven him” Radhika said when she was missing the presence of Manish.

“Arush ! Why are you crying my kid ?” Radhika asked after seeing him crying.

“I want to go to Papa” Arush said.

“Yes kid, we will go after 5 days, till then stay here happily. Tell me what do you want candies, chocolates or games ?” Radhika asked.

“I don’t want anything, I want Papa” Arush said and kept crying.

“Please calm Arush ! Let’s go to watch movies” Radhika said.

“No Mumma! I want to go to Papa” Arush said.

“No, now just shut up otherwise I’ll beat you” Radhika said angrily and Arush stopped crying.

Manish went to the market to refresh his mood and in the way he saw CCD, where he reminded the moments, spent with Radhika, tears came from his eyes and he went to his home again.

After 5 days

“Papaaaa” Arush shouted.

“Arush” Manish said loudly.

“Take care of him” Radhika said to Manish and went to her home.

“Yes” Manish said.

“Papa ! You don’t know how much I missed you, you just didn’t come” Arush said in sad voice.

“I was forced to do so my kid but now don’t worry, I am now here for you, today I will feed you food from my hand” Manish said.

After lunch,

“Where is mumma, Papa ?” Arush asked.

“She is not here kid, what do you want” Manish said.

“Nothing, just Mumma” Arush said.

“Mummy is not here kid, ask something else, Chocolates or games ? “ Manish said.

“No ! I want Mumma only” Arush said loudly.

“No ! Mumma will not come, now you shut up and go in the room” Manish ordered to Arush.

Arush sadly went into the room, Manish got busy in his office work and after 3 hours when Manish went to the room,

“Arush ! Arush ! Kid wake up” Manish tried to get up but Arush didn’t give any response.

“Arush ! Kid get up” Manish now said loudly still no response. Then Manish used some water drops but Arush didn’t wake up.

“Oh my god ! What happened to him” Manish said to himself suddenly he saw the open pouches of tablets of sleeping pills

“Ohh.. He took sleeping pills, need to go to the Doctor” Manish said to himself and took him to the doctor and after checking of doctor,

“Manish ! It’s a serious case, he has taken overdose of it” Doctor said.

“Please doctor ! Save my child, I don’t care about money just save my child” Manish said with tears in his eyes and meanwhile he also called to Radhika.

“Hello ! Radhika please come fast at city hospital, Arush’s life is in danger” Manish said on phone

“Oh my God” Radhika said and hangs up the call and comes to city hospital.

“You just can’t do anything right, if something happened to him na, I’ll never forgive you” Radhika said angrily.

“I just don’t know Radhika, when and how he took my sleeping pills” Manish said.

“But what the sleeping pills were doing in your room” Radhika said

“Actually I take it regularly, I had some sleeping issue” Manish said.

“You are very careless Manish, you just know how to blame someone and how to beat someone” Radhika said

“I’m so sorry Radhika for that day, you know I got the check that day was of 80 lacs worth and I was trying to take this from client from 3 months and when you poured tea accidentally on the check, I couldn’t control myself and slapped you, I am so sorry for that day yar, I shouldn’t have done that, I should have controlled myself, everyone does mistakes, please forgive me Radhika, please don’t go” Manish said.

“Do you know Manish, even if you had apologized that day, I would have forgiven you, but you were in your ego and never asked for apology” Radhika said.

“I’m so sorry Radhika, do you know Arush was remembering you when he was with me” Manish said.

“And he was remembering you, when he was with me” Radhika said.

“Good News Manish and Radhika, Arush has gotten his sense, now you people can meet him” Doctor said when he came after the treatment of Arush and so Manish and Radhika went to Arush’s room.

 “Why did you eat that tablets kid ?” Manish asked.

“Papa, they were very colourful like candy, so I ate but immediately after it, I didn’t know why I got very sleepy and now opened my eyes in hospital, what had happened to me Papa” Arush said

“Nothing kid, just a little issue” Manish said.

“Mummy ! Papa ! I want to live with you together, not one by one, please don’t go anywhere” Arush said.

“Don’t worry my child, we all three will live together and will do lots of fun” Manish said.

Manish held Radhika’s hand and asked her apology through his eyes and Radhika smiled and forgived Manish

FRIENDS RELATIONSHIP

Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between people. It is a stronger form of interpersonal bond than an “acquaintance” or an “association”, such as a classmate, neighbour, co-worker, or colleague.

In some cultures, the concept of friendship is restricted to a small number of very deep relationships; in others, such as the U.S. and Canada, a person could have many friends, plus perhaps a more intense relationship with one or two people, who may be called good friends or best friends. Other synonmic terms include besties or best friends for ever (BFFs).

Although there are many forms of friendship, some of which may vary from place to place, certain characteristics are present in many such bonds. Such features include choosing to be with one another, enjoying time spent together, and being able to engage in a positive and supportive role to one another.

Friendship has been studied in academic fields, such as communication, sociology, social psychology, anthropology, and philosophy. Various academic theories of friendship have been proposed, including social exchange theory, equity theory, relational dialectics, and attachment styles.

LOVE RELATIONSHIP

A  Relationship in which we are supposed to be comfortable, feel loved , intimacy and many more factors. Now not every love relationship is like lusty but many are. As an individual we all crave for extra love because it is in human instinct that we are never happy with enough resources, we always need more and more. Even I am one of them.

Love is someone who truly cares about you, an intense feeling of affection or concern. Love relationships consists of friendships, sexual attraction, intellectual, compatibility. Patience , caring, irrespective of jealousy and over expectations.

Love is not just limited to only lust, attraction companionship it is more wide in range. our  friends, parents pets animals and even our elders all of them are also under love relationship. The definition of love is not determined in any dictionary because it is different for different persons . The perception of one makes the definition of love. As per the Cambridge dictionary love is defined as liking another adult very much and being romantically in sexually attracted to them are having strong feelings of liking a friend or person in your family

A STORY

Love relationship

I lost my leg when I was 19. I was dating a girl at that time and we were very much in love. After a while, she suddenly decided to move abroad, claiming that she wanted to earn some money for us. I wanted to believe her, but was convinced that she was lying. I told her we needed to break up and that it would be better for her.

One month later, my doorbell rang. I took my crutches, opened the door and there she was. I didn’t even manage to get a word out before she slapped me and I fell down. She kneeled down beside me, hugged me and said, “You’re an idiot! I didn’t run away from you. We’re going to the hospital tomorrow and there’s a prosthesis waiting for you. I went abroad to earn money so you’ll be able to walk again – do you understand?” I was so overwhelmed with emotion that I couldn’t utter a single word – I just hugged her tightly and cried

ACQUAINTANCE RELATIONSHIP

A relationship which solely depends upon work or favor matters. Generally it helps in enhancing skills but do not provide any love or any emotional development. There is a huge lesson of reliability and loyalty in it.

In end I would like to say at different level of life there is a different kind of relationship we interact with. Each relationship carries its own meaning and value in one’s life. That means even by neglecting one relationship we suffer a huge loss whether it is emotional or psychological. We need to cherish the relationship acquired with the opposite one. But with time we must enhance the level of relationship and not to keeping it same as old. It one line, A relationship is between each other attached emotionally, physically, mentally.

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